Advice for shy guys on dating
I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.
As long as a girl is attractive to a man, he will often see her as girlfriend material…
Meeting people at a business or networking event feels easy in comparison to the intense fear of rejection most men feel even thinking about saying hi to a beautiful woman.) Write down a list of 5 places you could go to meet compatible women.
If you’re at home all day every day, then the rest of this article won’t help you much.
I had to learn how to become comfortable with myself and comfortable connecting with other people. A cute face, nice breasts, round hips, soft skin, a certain walk.
Because a younger woman was more likely to have a healthy pregnancy in the past. It was true a few thousand and a few million years ago.
In fact, one of my reasons for writing this article is to bust a lot of the MYTHS that some so-called “pick up” or dating coaches are spreading. Because some random dating coaches online recommended it. (Maybe they’ll sometimes go to bars with friends.) But that’s actually a good thing, because most women spend their time in less obnoxious environments.
When I was first trying to overcome my shyness around girls… My apartment was even a few blocks away from one of the main nightlife areas in the city, so it was easy to walk there. And while other dating coaches advise to chat to people in coffee shops, bookstores and supermarkets, I believe it’s more important to think about: Stop thinking about where to meet any girl.
You have to put yourself into situations where you have a chance to come in contact with women. If you don’t have many friends or a social circle, then you’ll have to get some or be proactive in other ways. So if you want a girlfriend, then you’ll need to do something different. Looking back now, it’s no wonder girls never showed any interest in me.
Remember any hobbies have you ever thought of trying (drawing, martial arts, volleyball, etc) and see where those classes are offered. (Most of us are.) I saw hundreds of girls in classes, part time jobs or elsewhere. Even in my first year of university, where there were so many cute women everywhere, I didn’t manage to go on my first date. Script writers just write what people WANT to be true. The truth was, I was a loner and not a very attractive person.